This part is hard, but youāre finding your way. Compassion to you. Things will be okay.
In the notebook
Iām also including my journal entry that led to the composition of this little song. Hereās the text (with some editing):
Iām in the midst of these long days*ā¦Iām trying to take care of myself as best I can.
Practicing self-compassionālike literally speaking words of self-compassion to myself (in my mind)āhelps a lot.
While driving this morning, I heard my thoughts spiraling in feelings of despair about the struggles and the ways in which Iām āfailingā my kids. I then managed to consciously intervene and say, āIām in the process of finding my way/our way with these struggles. We just had a hard morning.** Weāll be okay.ā That helped very much.
*of dance class rehearsals/recitals, school, work, and tiredness
**It was a morning of multiple kid meltdowns.




The self-compassion mantra is a game changer for sure! Mine goes something like this: "I'm struggling right now, and that's all right. Everyone struggles sometimes. Now I get to choose how to handle it." ā„ļø